Marriage Problems

Marriage problems can happen in any marriage,whether secular or religious. Many couples have those inFamous heated arguments and will throw everything, including The Kitchen Sink,in an effort to hurt or outdo their spouse and "win" the arguement by dredging up things that happened in the past,even things that are unrelated to the Topic at hand, things that have already been dealt with or even things one spouse had told them in confidence is now being used to ridicule them instead. Don`t fight fire with fire. Overcome evil with good. Romans 12v21. Do you know that song by Sara Evans "I could not Ask for more"? It has one line saying "smiling just to see that smile upon your face" When you argue, try not to shout or yell at your spouse, it seems that the more you shout and yell, the more your spouse will shout and yell in response, trying to shout over you to dominate the arguement, besides being immature,destructive and counterproductive,its not pleasing to God and it does not set a good example to the children who are bound to see and hear Dad And Mom "going at it"